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Avis in a hospital bed in March
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The Gerrard Chronicles 2025

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This year, it is nearly all about Avis.


THE END OF AVIS (13/8/1935 - 17/4/2025)

On the Sunday after the Alyson trip (December 22nd), Ken drove Avis out on what he calls the Ashridge Round via Wendover & Tring out & then, Whipsnade & the M1 home. Avis fell over in the Scratchwood Services & as usual, people rushed to help.
That night, just as Monday started, Avis tried to get up for a pee but kept struggling to grab & pull on the Zimmer for at least 10 minutes. Ken got up to help, with the consequence that Avis slid down onto the floor. Ken tried the Emergency Buzzer & they just said ring 999, which Ken did & at first, by mistake, they put him through to the police. Then, Ken got the ambulance service. After taking particulars, they said someone would ring Ken back. He wrapped Avis in the duvet from the property chest, took the ‘phone into bed with him (it only just reached) & awaited the Call. It came after quite a while &, when Ken had described Avis’ condition, the caller said he was upgrading the call. Ken put on a dressing gown & waited, not too long. They (Mark & Zac) had the usual portable hospital & thought that Avis, who shouted & screamed as usual when they tried to touch her, may have cracked her hip. With even more protest, they got her down stairs on a chair, tipping up the bookcase (Drama & Philosophy) on the landing & took her to UCH.
Later that day, Ken found Avis in A & E at University College Hospital. She was in Ward T10 on Tuesday &, to Ken’s delight, the consultant was the familiar Fiona Humphries. Ken visited Avis every day, except when the NHS took all day to deliver a hospital bed at home. (Ken had to walk both ways on Xmas Day, owing to no public transport).
While Avis had not broken anything, they found various infections & introduced another into her iron knee they could not get out. After three months, they gave up on her but getting her home was a performance, as the bed had no rails & she fell out several times, when they usually took her back into hospital. Eventually, a fitter came on a Saturday evening & fitted rails. That was the end of that problem & Council Carers (mostly from Nepal) came three time a day to tidy Avis up, while Ken cooked her meals as usual. However, after April 9th, Avis stopped eating & died around 08:00 on Thursday 17th April. The Comedy of Official Errors did not stop then, as the Carers rang the police, who were very kindly but Ken had to correct a host of errors the police had put in his statement. Then, the police took Avis off to the Coroner’s freezer, which happens if the police are involved. As a result, it took ages for Ken to get a Death Certificate.

MORE PAPERWORK

Having obtained a Death Certificate.... ....from the kindly Registration Staff at Islington Town Hall, Ken then had to book a funeral with the Co-op Funeral Service. We had paid for both our funerals nine years before, thanks to the advice of a lawyer Ken had booked for the U3A’s Topical Topics lecture series. He said funeral inflation was high, so pay for one Now! So we did.
As a result of all the delay, it would be 40 days from Avis’ death to her funeral.
Ken contacted Jim Trimmer, another of the Class of 1954 at Isleworth Grammar School, who’s retirement job is conducting weddings & funerals without the unwelcome attendance of god-botherers
(something Ken has also done but he thought this one might be too demanding).

Jim, with whom Ken had kept in touch, was happy to do it.

Jim Trimmer

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The Gerrard Chronicles published by Ken Baldry 17 Gerrard Road Islington London N1 8AY ©Ken Baldry2025
All photographs & text Ken Baldry except where credited. Published using BBEdit on an Apple Mac Mini with Panasonic TR60 images and Epson scanned images.